Winter Blooming Festival in Armidale to hear from gay Gamilaraay man Russell Cook

The event honours First Nations people, the LGBTQIA+ community, multiculturalism, the arts and allies.

It will feature a range of speakers exploring topics affecting these communities, including Moree man Russell Cook, who will discuss First Nations sexuality and gender identities.

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As a gay Gamilaraay man, Russell knows what it is like to face a society that can be hostile to his identity, and treasures environments where he can feel safe being fully authentic.

An Aboriginal Health Worker for local organisation HealthWISE, inclusivity was a significant factor for Russell during his job search.

"I look at if they're being inclusive - not only towards the LGTBQ community, but all nationalities, genders and everything - because I don't want to come into a workspace that's not accepting," Russell explained. He researched HealthWISE thoroughly before applying for the role.

"I found out that HealthWISE works for the whole community. It doesn't matter where you come from, what skin tone you are, what gender you are or what you identify as.

"We are an organisation that when you walk through our doors, we're there to help you no matter what, and if we can't, we have connections to other businesses and organisations that are inclusive as well."

In celebration of Pride Month, Russell and his Moree colleagues recently put this commitment into action, inviting local drag queen CC to visit the local office for a chat and mini photo shoot.

The group did a short walk around, visiting other inclusive organisations and having conversations with locals.

The gesture was well received by business and strangers alike, and the group was greeted with supportive car horn beeps and waves throughout.

It was a triumph for Russell, who has not always been able to be loud and proud about his identity. Growing up in Moree in a family of boys, accepting his sexuality was not easy, let alone sharing it with the world.

"There was a struggle, thinking 'Who's going to accept me?' It took a toll on me. I ate a lot, I didn't do anything," he said.

Russell began shutting himself away from the world, and even contemplated self-harm. But with the help of close friends, cousins, and eventually his direct family, he began a slow journey toward self-acceptance.

Finally coming out on Facebook, most were supportive. However, some friends dropped off, and others struggled to come to terms with the news.

"My dad was the hardest, for a little bit. He didn't speak to me for a good month, from memory, when I first came out," Russell said.

Now, his dad is one of his most stalwart supporters, and often comes along to events involving the LGBTQIA+ community.

"He came to my first Mardi Gras. He's my biggest supporter, other than my mother."

The Winter Blooming Festival will be held over three days from Friday, July 15 to Sunday, July 17. Russell will deliver his speech on the Saturday morning.